BALLS, BRAINS & VIRTUE

Just as we naturally flee/fight when threatened, so men naturally withdraw our balls when frightened by woman's presence. Also, when we perceive her disapproval of them and what they engender (e.g., toughness and fighting) we hide them for approval.

So far, so good; but the problem is, we fall for our own devices, leaving ourselves ball-less in arenas which require them for survival, and especially, salvation. Left without balls, we are ill-prepared for confronting larger female powers wisely, not to mention with a proper basis for faith, namely, stand-ability.

More wisely, rather than "drawing up our balls" or turning "nice," we should "drop them further," yet act sensibly--that is, stay consciously male, aware of androgen-based capacities like stand-ability, compete-ability, and sexiness. Instead of sacrificing these male qualities in quest of protection or approval we would own them clearly, in consciousness, and learn to function with appropriate deception when necessary, but with overt power when called for.

For example: staying sexy when action is inappropriate or a female is nonscious of sex and consciously rejective. Or, remaining firmly present, without wavering, when a female turns bitchy or picky.

The act of faith is: 1) to keep balls descended, and 2) act sanely, rather than drawing-up and becoming "nice" and wimpy.

For females: the same must be true with brains: 1) to keep mind operative, and 2) act dumb when feasible, rather than going mind-less and becoming fearful or witchy.

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